
Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
Col. 3: 12 – 19
When I go to weddings I often ask myself, “why is it that people get married in the first place?” Many people who are getting married don’t have a good answer to that question. They make elaborate plans for their wedding day but they fail to make plans for their marriage. You know what order people are going to stand in but do you know how to listen to each other? Can you continue to love each other when you are tired? When you are sick? How about when you are sick and tired?
Marriage doesn’t strengthen a relationship. People often approach marriage as an arrangement to shore up a shaky relationship and that’s just crazy. If you are not committed to making this relationship work before you get married then you won’t be any more committed after you are married. It is such a delight to work with couples who take their relationship seriously. Couples who are going to last together are willing to make sacrifices in order to love each other well. Marriage is worth your best effort.
Marriage was not invented by the government! The Province of Ontario has stipulations and restrictions on how marriages happen and who can solemnize marriages and who can’t but marriage was not invented by the government, Marriage was invented by God. It has been around for thousands of years. Marriage was part of God’s plan from the beginning. Marriage was created before sin entered the world. It is described in Genesis chapter two! That’s about as close to the beginning as you can get!
Our culture totally doesn’t get marriage. We have TV shows like the Bachelor, the Bachelorette, Nerd Meets Girl, and some other cable shows that reduce marriage to, “who do I like the look of best?” or, “who fits with me best?” The problem with that is that looks fade and people change. We hear about things like prenuptial agreements and marriage contracts. Marriage is not a contract, it is a covenant. more…